As student leaders you may find yourself in a situation where you want to advise someone.
If you have a relevant and helpful personal experience to share, and you feel comfortable doing so, feel free to do so.
It is not your responsibility to ‘fix’ people’s problems or to have all the answers.
If you experience or witness an incident of harassment, bullying or discrimination, the University's Report + Support tool offers a quick and easy way to let someone know and find out what support is available.
If you are concerned about a fellow committee member, or are struggling in your role, please do book in a Development Meeting.
There is a wide range of services, both within the University and externally, that you can signpost to which can help. Find out more on our support pages or use our Interactive Signposting Resource below.
Internal and External Support Services at UoB
Internal and External Signposting UoB by Bristol SU Student OpportunitiesDealing with Disclosures
FAQ: What should I do w/ Disclosures? by Bristol SU Student OpportunitiesWellbeing in your Group
Just like our physical health, our mental health fluctuates on a scale from good to poor and needs regular up-keep to maintain it. Student Groups significantly influence members' wellbeing, and feeling valued and supported within these groups correlates with higher wellbeing levels. Increased engagement in wider university activities and culture, means students will be making the most of their time here at the University of Bristol.
Wellbeing Champions
From our conversations with student groups, we know a lot of you are already looking out for your members wellbeing. By having a named Wellbeing Champion in each group, we’re hoping to complement this work, and provide you with additional resources, support and guidance you might need.
You aren’t expected to have amazing mental health all the time to be a champion, rather you are conscious of things to consider when it comes to the collective wellbeing of your group.
**At this stage, it is important to note that ya Wellbeing Champion is not their groups 'therapist'; a culture of wellbeing should be embodied by all.
What does a Wellbeing Champion do?
A Wellbeing Champion will deliver proactive initiatives that support members to have good wellbeing, work with the wider committee to ensure members feel valued and supported and that their wellbeing is considered in all that a group does; from socials to trials, wellbeing should be at the core of every group. A Wellbeing Champion would:
- Roll out initiatives that boost group wellbeing
- Ensure members feel valued and supported
- Keep member wellbeing at the forefront in all our group activities, from hangouts to try-outs
- Be mindful of the unique challenges that could impact a groups’ mental health and wellbeing
- Ensure wellbeing is embodied by all members
To sign up as a Wellbeing Champion for your group, please complete this form
For further details, please see our Wellbeing Champion Role and Duties
Wellbeing Action Toolkit
Use this Toolkit to help identify potential signs of stress or poor wellbeing within your membership and map out how you can elevate your support.
Wellbeing Resources
Keep an eye on your emails for information on wellbeing training. The 'Creating a Group for All' newsletter for Equalities Officers highlights upcoming training opportunities that your whole committee can take part in.
You might also like to check out workshops run by the following organisations:
Previous Bristol SU training:
Transgender Inclusion
Transgender and non-binary students are integral to, and valued within, our university community.
Our affiliated student groups benefit from the diverse experiences of their members and should aim for transgender and non-binary students to feel included and respected in all their activities.
Information on Supporting Transgender and Non-binary Members
Below is some guidance that will be useful if a member discloses that they are transgender or non-binary to you.
- Ask the individual how they want to be referred to, including which name and which pronouns you should use. Use these all the time, not just when in the company of the person. This should be common practice among members, regardless of members’ gender expressions.
- If you make a mistake with a person’s pronouns or name, apologise, correct yourself, and then quickly move on. It is quite normal to make an honest mistake, and individuals will appreciate an apology without lingering on the subject.
- Respect people’s boundaries, it is not appropriate to ask a transgender person personal questions or make comments on their appearance.
- Ask the individual if they require additional support from yourself, or from the University, and listen without judgement.
- Do not tell others about a person’s trans identity, history, or status without their consent, and deal with any requests for support in a timely and confidential manner.
- Doing the emotional labor of teaching your peers about transgender history and injustice is tiring for many; relieve your members of this burden by ensuring you do your homework.
You could be the very first person an individual discusses their transness with; remember, some members might not be ‘out’ to everyone yet or feel safe to do so.
Treat their decision to tell you honorably, as it can take unrivalled amounts of courage for an individual to come out. If you must speak about the conversation to another committee member for support after, the individual must remain anonymous, or you must gain the individual’s express consent.
Remember, you can always book in for a meeting with the Bristol SU Development Team if you need some support or guidance.
Further Resources
- UoB Being a Trans Ally. Advice and guidance on how to be a better trans ally
- UoB Trans and Non-binary Mentorship Programme
- Trans Inclusion e-learning. This comprehensive, free Trans Inclusion e-learning course, developed by Trans in the City, Cool2BTrans and Global Butterflies, includes the information you need to understand the fundamentals of trans awareness
- LGBTQ+ Society.
- Freedom (Off The Record)
- Dandelion Harm reduction service for anyone taking hormone replacement therapy (Specifically DIY methods)
Sexual Consent
We strongly recommend that all student group committee members complete the University Consent Matters training course, which covers important topics including consent, healthy relationships and bystander intervention.
What is Sexual Consent?
To consent means to agree to something, and the word can be used in lots of different situations. When it comes to sex specifically, to consent means to agree to have sex or engage in sexual activity. Consent should be given clearly and freely.
This means that a person is unable to give consent if:
- they are asleep or unconscious
- they are drunk or have taken drugs
- they are under the age of consent
- they are being pressured, manipulated, tricked or bullied into saying 'yes'
- they have a mental health condition that could affect their decision-making
- there is a power imbalance due to age or maturity
If consent is not given to any kind of sexual activity, this is rape or sexual assault. If you repeatedly ask for consent and are refused, this can count as sexual harassment.
It’s important that everyone involved in sexual activity is consenting at all times – no one should ever feel they have to do something they are not comfortable with or don’t want to do. Just because you have consented to one thing, doesn’t mean you have consented to something else, and it’s completely OK to say no or stop at any point if you don’t want to continue. Consent can be withdrawn.
If you receive a disclosure from a member about consent and unwanted sexual activity, please refer to our guidance here - FAQ: What should I do w/ Disclosures? by Bristol SU Student Opportunities.
Further Support
If you think you have experienced unwanted behavior of a sexual nature, see the Universities sexual misconduct page for advice on what to do next. You can also get support from external charities and organisations. The University and Students’ Union takes a 0-tolerance stance towards sexual misconduct however, it’s important to note that you don’t have to report, to get support.
Additional Support
Stuck with any of the above?
Development Meetings
The Development Team can support you with a wide variety of things including (but not limited to):
- Committee conflict
- Concerns about members
- Building Communities
- Breaking down barriers
Book a meeting with the Development Team or email us - bristolsu-development@bristol.ac.uk
University Wellbeing Service
The Student Wellbeing service runs regular workshops throughout the year to help you manage your own wellbeing. You can see a full calendar of upcoming training events here
Creating a Group for All Whatsapp Community
Join our Creating a Group for All Whatsapp Community where you will receive updates and reminders to help you in your role
Get in touch with the Development Team
Book a meeting with the Dev Team
Send an email to the Dev Team
Check out training on the Bristol SU Learning Space